Why would anyone use a dildio when they can use a vibrator?

There are a simple reasons why. First, maybe you have roomates that can hear. That would not be good, of course. secondly, maybe you’d want to use a dildo to have a different feel, most dildos are solid but not as solid as plastoc so you can experience a different feeling sensation.

se025004.jpgThe dildo in the picture is made of a dense jelly material that has a consistent feel and the most amazing ribbed surface. Sure it could have been a vibrator but there is certain elegance in a solo dildo.

Maybe you are looking for a better feel. here are the differences between two main types of dildos commonly seen:  Jelly is also very cold, and may heat up with friction, but is just chilly for the most part. This is one reason why Jelly is a “fun” material for a dildo. Not only dose cold feel great in a womans vagina, but  the sleek design and the variety of shapes makes for jelly to be an exciting, flirty sex play toy.

Cyberskin is a naturally warm material, again like a real penis. Cyberskin dildo’s may warm a bit more with friction, but the start room temperature and maintain that the duration of usage. Cyberskin is perfect for anyone wanting a real man, without the rest of the man! A great dildo for those passionate, intense sex play sessions.

Is it your first time with a dildo?

To use a dildo for the first time, try and keep it simple. Lubricate the dildo, and lay on your back. Place the dildo up to your vagina. Massage the lips and the clitoris, and slowly insert the dildo into your vagina. Move it around, and massage your vagina and probe it as deep as feels good. Learn your body, and experiment with your sex toys. Find out what really feels good for you, and where the sensations are mostly felt. When you decided what feels nice, and how you like to use your dildo, then try a newer model.

If you need more length, get a double dildo. They have  an extra long shaft that is ususally pliable and two heads.

That’s the quick intro to dildos!


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Vibrators are probably the most well known sex toys on the market today. These come in so many different shapes, sizes and have so many added features. You can substitute sex with a real and for a vibrator in fact some vibrators have features that a penis does not! These are also great sex toys for couples, and the man can use it on the woman as foreplay, or he can watch her use it during mutual masturbation.

Vibrators also make the perfect gift for your partner, as they are very personal and only to be used in private scenarios. Giving your partner such a taboo gift will let her know that you want to be part of her sexy intimate time, and that you are willing to try new things to keep the sex intense. Also add other adult novelties like response creams so that you can enhance your sexual experience with adult toys. She will be so thrilled to know that you are the one who wants to be part of her secret world, she will definitely reply with more exhilarating sex!


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Sex toys are truly a masterpiece when it comes to adding extra pleasure and fun to your sex life. They help show men and women alike what a real orgasm is like, and how great it can be! That is all great, but knowing how good they are is one thing, using them is another. How do you get your spouse to use one? How do you tell them, “Honey, can we try using sex toys?” I’m sure there are some couples that are open enough to actually just ask that, but what about those couples who are a little shy, or who are newly married and don’t know their spouse well enough? Well, here are a few ideas on how to ask your spouse indirectly if he/she wants to try out some sex toys.

A really romantic way is to do the good old fashioned bed of red roses,  and a trail of rose petals leading to the front door. The when they get home, to their surprise they will walk in and see all the rose petals. Follow the trail and open the bedroom door, what is on the other side? A beautiful bed of roses, some nice sexy music, candles, or whatever.. Then when they walk in the room, you can be hiding behind the door. Close t12207t.jpghe door behind them, and they will turn to see you wearing a sexy garter belt, bustier and high heels, or if you are a guy, a kinky costume that will turn her on. Have a vibrator, clit toy, vibrating cock ring or some kind of sex toy laying on the pillow so they can see them when they walk in. That is a good way of romantically enticing your partner into trying out sex toys.

Another good idea is to get a vibrator and wrap it up still in the package, then give it to your spouse, male or female, and let them unwrap it. If she opens it, she will be so surprised, and if you just sit there smiling that cute smile she loves, she will probably be very excited! If he opens it, no need for flattering smiles, he will probably be so excited he will swoop you off your feet and straight to the bedroom!

You could always try leaving little notes around the house, like, “What are you doing tonight?”, and then cute things like, “Wanna try something new?”. Then you can work up to surprising them with a sex toy in the bedroom later on.

Start small and easy with little sex toys and a bottle of lube, and work your way up to using a strap on dildo harness, or a sex sling, or a huge vibrator or something. Maybe clit toys are the best way of beginning, as the man can tease to girl with the clit toy, or she can tease him and use the clit toy on herself in front of him.

Lubrication on its own is also a good beginning for sex toy play. Just bring home a bottle of flavored lube, and later on in the bedroom, take out the lube and rub a little on your naughty bits. Get your partner to lick it off erotically, or lick it off your partner. Lube is a great way of having slippery, sliding sex and keeping it that way all night.

There are many ways to introduce sex toys into your bedroom love play, try and figure out the best way for you to introduce sex toys into your relationship. In the long run, it will be worth it, and you and your partner will enjoy your new hobby of sex toys. Sex toys will help bring you both closer, and your relationship will blossom with your private little dirty hobbies! It is worth it for you try and get sex toys into your routine, you’ll love it!


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