Bringing More Pleasure Into The Bedroom

13Dec07

Sex toys are truly a masterpiece when it comes to adding extra pleasure and fun to your sex life. They help show men and women alike what a real orgasm is like, and how great it can be! That is all great, but knowing how good they are is one thing, using them is another. How do you get your spouse to use one? How do you tell them, “Honey, can we try using sex toys?” I’m sure there are some couples that are open enough to actually just ask that, but what about those couples who are a little shy, or who are newly married and don’t know their spouse well enough? Well, here are a few ideas on how to ask your spouse indirectly if he/she wants to try out some sex toys.

A really romantic way is to do the good old fashioned bed of red roses,  and a trail of rose petals leading to the front door. The when they get home, to their surprise they will walk in and see all the rose petals. Follow the trail and open the bedroom door, what is on the other side? A beautiful bed of roses, some nice sexy music, candles, or whatever.. Then when they walk in the room, you can be hiding behind the door. Close t12207t.jpghe door behind them, and they will turn to see you wearing a sexy garter belt, bustier and high heels, or if you are a guy, a kinky costume that will turn her on. Have a vibrator, clit toy, vibrating cock ring or some kind of sex toy laying on the pillow so they can see them when they walk in. That is a good way of romantically enticing your partner into trying out sex toys.

Another good idea is to get a vibrator and wrap it up still in the package, then give it to your spouse, male or female, and let them unwrap it. If she opens it, she will be so surprised, and if you just sit there smiling that cute smile she loves, she will probably be very excited! If he opens it, no need for flattering smiles, he will probably be so excited he will swoop you off your feet and straight to the bedroom!

You could always try leaving little notes around the house, like, “What are you doing tonight?”, and then cute things like, “Wanna try something new?”. Then you can work up to surprising them with a sex toy in the bedroom later on.

Start small and easy with little sex toys and a bottle of lube, and work your way up to using a strap on dildo harness, or a sex sling, or a huge vibrator or something. Maybe clit toys are the best way of beginning, as the man can tease to girl with the clit toy, or she can tease him and use the clit toy on herself in front of him.

Lubrication on its own is also a good beginning for sex toy play. Just bring home a bottle of flavored lube, and later on in the bedroom, take out the lube and rub a little on your naughty bits. Get your partner to lick it off erotically, or lick it off your partner. Lube is a great way of having slippery, sliding sex and keeping it that way all night.

There are many ways to introduce sex toys into your bedroom love play, try and figure out the best way for you to introduce sex toys into your relationship. In the long run, it will be worth it, and you and your partner will enjoy your new hobby of sex toys. Sex toys will help bring you both closer, and your relationship will blossom with your private little dirty hobbies! It is worth it for you try and get sex toys into your routine, you’ll love it!

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